Education System & 3 Idiot Movie

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Without any practical sound knowledge we cannot do well to others. This was shown in the picture “Three Idiots. The Dean, Viru sahstra Buddhe was nic named as “Virus”

Education comes as a key to personality growth and self development that manifests in relentless promotion of self. But what is missing in self expression that flows from self giving. Giving unconditional love is the highest form of self expression. It may involve lot of sacrifice, but the final outcome can only bring benefit to all, including oneself. Online Student Counselling
At first we should understand that if we have unconditional love in our heart then only we can do selfless service. Service to mankind is possible if we are really kind.
“Little more kindness by you and me
What a beautiful world that would be”
If we are good human beings then there can be good self expression which will reflect in our service we render. Self expression does not mean that we reach the heights in our career through ruthless competition and self promotion.
Education comes as a key to personality growth and self development that manifests in relentless promotion of self. But what is missing in self expression that flows from self giving. Giving unconditional love is the highest form of self expression. It may involve lot of sacrifice, but the final outcome can only bring benefit to all, including oneself. Best Motivational Speaker
Without any practical sound knowledge we cannot do well to others. This was shown in the picture “Three Idiots. The Dean, Viru sahstra Buddhe was nic named as “Virus”.He was named so because of firstly 1.-He was very rigid,
Next2-He had theoretical knowledge,
3-He did not accept new and modern ideas,
4-He was very dogmatic in approach and too traditional to accept anything new.
Amir khan played the role of Rancho who was full of new and innovative ideas which had to be accepted by open and broad minded people. Somehow, as the society is today, people misunderstand Rancho initially but in the end “All became well.”
Many good people sometimes rather depressingly feel that all they do and say are mere drops in the ocean, when surrounded by such a sea of misery and despair. But deep down, they know they are following a call, taking forward a divine intervention in their own lives and that of others. If they treat the work they do and the help they give to others as a divine calling, it becomes a form of self expression that is divine.
Aid workers to this day go to zones of conflict and war or flood affected areas to give humanitarian assistance-not for their ulterior motives but to save lives. Sometimes even they risk their own lives in giving a helping hand to those who are in need. This type of service is given by Florence Nightingale. Even politicians like Nehru, Radhakrishnan, Rajendra Prasad, Ambedkar and Lal Bahadur Shastri, Indira Gandhi,Mother Terresa played the role models of selfless service.
In today’s Era we have business leaders like Azim Premji of Wipro and Narayan Murthy ,Sudha Murthy of Infosys and many other spiritual leaders like Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, Maulana Wahidduin Khan are working to bring desperate groups together and get them to live in harmony.
The world will become a better place to live in if each one of us can serve others with unconditional love and we realize the more we give more we receive.

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Jalta Punjab

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70% men are addicted to hard drinks and some females are also addicted. But still girls are very powerful and majority of women do not have any such addiction.
One should be polite and humble while listening. At present Punjab is facing a very serious problem and has become a very disturbed state. The problem is addiction to drinks and that also young generation is affected the most.
Punjab was a state of heroes where people were full of enthusiasm and where people contributed maximum during freedom movement in the year 1947. What is the reason behind this drastic change inPunjab? People are helpless and watching silently this ruin of young generation. Even the songs like ‘Nashe shi chadh gayi,Patang si lar gayi” are giving very bad effect on young minds. if we visit Punjab now we will find in every house, even the heads of the family that is fathers are also suffering from same addiction as the younger one.
70% men are addicted to hard drinks and some females are also addicted. But still girls are very powerful and majority of women do not have any such addiction. Due to modernization people are teaching bad things to girls and girls are forgetting their inner strength. Young generation is very reluctant to listen to good things and adopt them. Because of temporary enjoyment of bad habits in a day one has to suffer remaining 23 hrs.
So please make a good habit of listening to good things and practice them in your life. We must get rid of bad habits effects because if we consider our life span to be 100 years due to the greed of just getting one year enjoyment we may lose happiness of remaining 99 years .
If you are asked whether you there should be examination or not promptly you will answer –“there should not be any examination.”Mind is very tricky .Mind always wants shortcut to success. If most of the people are given whether they should pray or not then majority will opt for “No Prayer. ‘But if you realize the importance of God then maximum enjoyment we can get in doing prayer. If you really want to enjoy your life then better try to enjoy in doing good things. You can get short time enjoyment even in drinks but that’s not a solution and let’s not kills ourselves.
When we connect with God then we get strength and we can differentiate between good and bad and short time pleasure and continued happiness. So we can get pleasure even in prayer and meditation.Durng meditation we connect ourselves with our soul and can feel we are divine souls. Best Motivational Speaker
Let’s now focus inside and meditate and connect ourselves with God so that we can get power and avoid evil and bring good in our lives. Repeat the mantra with proper understanding and right attitude
ॐ पूर्णमदः पूर्णमिदं पूर्णात्पुर्णमुदच्यते Om Puurnnam-Adah Puurnnam-Idam Puurnnaat-Purnnam-Udacyate
पूर्णस्य पूर्णमादाय पूर्णमेवावशिष्यते. Puurnnasya Puurnnam-Aadaaya Puurnnam-Eva-Avashissyate
ॐ शान्तिः शान्तिः शान्ति Om Shaantih Shaantih Shaantih ||.
You are the fullness. There is fullness, here is fullness. From the fullness, the fullness is born. Remove the fullness from the fullness and the fullness alone remains.

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The need for practical knowledge, sex education and moral values

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Due to the increasing influence of social media and internet our youth has got a lot of exposure to western countries in the last decade. However, they have not received the required practical knowledge and sex education from their homes and educational institutions.
Some incidents related to harassment of Women in Jaipur and Bangalore have been in the news recently.
Usually such incidents related to harassment of women are blamed on the twisted mentality of men. But this is not always true. Many times, such incidents are also instigated by women as blackmail. The recent incident in jaipur is such an example
In the last decade, due to the increasing influence of social medial and interest our youth has got a lot of exposure to western countries. However, they have no received the required practical knowledge and sex education from their homes or educational institutions. Talking about such topics is considered to be against the Indian culture.
while we observe western culture and openness easily, we are quiet about sex education in our homes and educational institutions. Everyone seems to be overwhelmed with so much exposure and are unable to understand how to stop these incidents of sexual harassments.
It seems shameful that such incidents are happening in the land of Ram, Krishan, Buddha, Mahavir and Gandhi. The entire world is becoming a marketplace due to globalization. If we analyze the reason for this twisted mentality of the society, we’ll find that the reason is not just internet, social media or technological development but the lack of sex education and wrong parenting . Both girls and boys are exposed to western culture and openness. They are all getting influenced. If we look at the state of higher education in our universities and college, their syllabus does not include moral education. we can’t even expect them to include practical or human value based education.
If we want to safeguard our homes and our youth, we need to take steps to include sex education, practical knowledge, yoga and value based education while parenting at home. As a part of education in schools and college, we shall be able to create a healthy environment as per our great culture and tradition.
The season is changing after Lohri and Makar Sakaranti. These changes bring good opportunities. We all can take this opportunity to develop a better society based on love, harmony, equality and respect towards women, Mothers, daughters and sisters who represent love, forgiveness and human values in a society. A society which respect these value will become a happy and prosperous society.
With love, respect and best wishes,

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How to oxygenate and detoxify your brain

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Bring silence, keep your mind quiet. There is lot of noise inside. You have studied cell, atom. If atom is also subdivided nothing seems to be visible.
Fold your hands and close your eyes and bring silence. Everywhere there is silence so that you can recall everything you learnt from your memory. You may feel you are going to forget everything you have learnt.
But your brain is not so poor. If someone forgets, it is because they feel that they are going to forget all they have learnt. But mind does not function like this. One can recall everything one has learnt. Whatever is learnt or read comes back easily in mind. Something that we can remember throughout our life. So we all are gifted with good memory.
All religions agree that silence or zero state are most powerful stage. Everywhere God is nothing but zero, nothing but energy.
Let us scientifically understand why we say “OM”? Why while chanting we do deep breathing which supplies oxygen to our brain or to neurons of brain. Method of breathing is very important. If we take ten seconds while inhaling, we should take thirty seconds while exhaling. Because of this supply of oxygen increases which purifies our blood. And we release triple amount of carbon dioxide.
This also increases your memory power, concentration will be more. Body gets Oxygenated and detoxified. Better understand this scientific method and try to do everything logically.
Now take a deep breath and we will chant “OM” with right attitude. Why in a temple, Gurudwara, Church do we get better vibration ? This is because we get benefited by good vibration which creates energy and energy is never destroyed.
Why can’t we listen to good things ? It is because of our bad Karmas. Do good actions and you will be able to listen well.

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Why the colorful Holi is better than the bon fire Holi ?

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I think the basic reason for our economic and social problems is our negative thinking. On the contrary, our neighbour Japan is just the opposite. There, every person gives more importance to the moral values. Every person looks at the life with a nationalist view and is full of gratitude.
Normally either people talk about the magnificence of ancient India or they are seen giving suggestions about the problems of modern India in Present times. For a long time I have been thinking that this is such a paradox. On the one hand we talk about being the (Vishwa guru) the masters of the world, on the other hand we find that this country is divided into 565 Dynasties. Even today we find individualistic thinking. Every person seem to be thinking only about himself. Actually if we look at the basis of social, economic and political problems we find that the biggest problem is negative thinking. Keeping this view in mind if we look at the pillars of democracy like legislature, executive, judiciary or Journalism we find that every leader is busy criticizing the other person and focuses at the weaknesses. Whether you visit the secretariat or collect orate we find that every person is busy finding excuses for not doing anything. When we look at bureaucracy we find that administrative officers who get big positions with fat salaries are given this position so that they can take decisions in favour of our country but unfortunately either these people do not allow the work to be done or they find reason to not to do the work. For their petty personal benefits they don’t mind the bigger loss of the country. We all know that passivity or pessimistic thinking never helps any country, nor does it allow the country to grow. You must have hardly heard one leader or a bureaucrat praising anyone else.
I think the basic reason for our economic and social problems is our negative thinking. On the contrary, our neighbour Japan is just the opposite. There, every person gives more importance to the moral values. Every person looks at the life with a nationalist view and is full of gratitude. No matter how many number of materialistic things we may collect, the element of our success will be prominent only if we start thinking positively. Negative thinking starts from childhood. When the child is very young, first the parents start scaring him, then the teachers scare him in the school or college where he studies. Finally the place where he works, his employers do the same thing.
Actually there are two ways of working. One is the way of fear and the other is love. Just because the path of love is little more difficult, the person has to develop himself. On the other hand path of fear is easy so people find it convenient to choose the option of scaring others. Fear gives birth to anger, worries and greed.
So, now let us look at two day festival of Holi from the emotional point of view. Day one of holi is the day where we burn are negativity into the bonfire of Holika. Holika wanted to burn Prahlad because of her anger and jealousy but actually Prahlad never got burnt. So, only that thing gets burnt which is supposed to burn not everything.

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आत्मविश्वास बढ़ता है जब आप दूसरों को प्रोत्साहित करते है।

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एक बच्चे के समान ताली बजाकर स्वयं को ऊर्जावान कीजिए। अपने आसपास के लोगों पर ध्यान दीजिए। यदि वे मुस्कुरा रहे है तो वे सभी ऊर्जावान है और यदि वे दुखी है उनमें ऊर्जा निम्नतम स्तर पर है। जब आप दुखी होते है तो आप सर्वाधिक ऊर्जा खर्च कर रहे होते हैं यह ऐसा है जैसे कि आपने मोबाइल का गूगल मैप सर्च करना शुरू कर दिया हो जिसके कारण आपको कोई दूसरी महत्त्वपूर्ण सूचना प्राप्त नहीं हो रही है तथा मोबाइल की बैट्री तेजी से खर्च होने लग गई हो।
यदि आप उच्च ऊर्जा स्तर पर जीना चाहते हैं तो एक शिशु के समान मुस्कराइए और ताली बजाइए जो एक अच्छी ध्वनि उत्पन्न करती है। ध्वनि हमारे जीवन के लिए अत्यन्त महत्त्वपूर्ण है। ध्वनि मस्तिष्क को संदेश भेजती है और मस्तिष्क की तंत्रिकाएँ सक्रिय हो जाती हैं तथा स्पंदन उत्पन्न करती हैं। इस स्पंदन से ऊर्जा उत्पन्न होती है। यदि ध्वनि प्रभावशाली नहीं है तो यह नकारात्मक ऊर्जा उत्पन्न करेगा जिसके कारण हमारे कार्य समुचित रूप से नहीं होंगे और यदि ध्वनि सौम्य, शक्तिशाली और सकारात्मक होगी तो यह सकारात्मक ऊर्जा उत्पन्न करेगी और हमारे कार्य समुचित रूप से होंगे। हमारे आस-पास जो भी अच्छा कार्य हो रहा हो उसे प्रोत्साहन देने के लिए ताली बजाना ना भूलें।
आइए! हम प्रतिदिन अपना मूल्यंाकन स्वयं करंे तभी हम महान् कार्य कर सकंेगे। स्वयं का आकलन स्वयं कीजिए और अपने जीवन में ईमानदारी को स्थान दीजिए। स्वप्न लीजिए और स्वप्न पूर्ण करने हेतु कठिन परिश्रम कीजिए। आइए हम समय व्यर्थ न करें। कार्य के समय कार्य करें और खेल के समय खेले। आलोचना बंद करे और परिस्थितियों को बिना दूसरों को दोष दिए स्वीकार करें। स्वयं, अपने माता-पिता और अपने गुरूजनों पर विश्वास करें और उन्हे लगातार धन्यवाद देने का भाव बनाएं।

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क्या बच्चे वो करते हैं जो उन्हें कहा जाता है या जो उनकी अपनी पुस्तकों में लिखा होता हैं ?

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एक बालक की अच्छी परवरिश अत्यंत उपयोगी है। बच्चे अपने माता-पिता या गुरूजनों या बड़ों का ही अनुकरण करते हैं। माता-पिता या बड़ों को अपने बच्चों के जीवन में आदर्श ;तवसम उवकमसद्ध बनना चाहिए।
आजकल माता-पिता अपने बच्चों के साथ समय व्यतीत नहीं कर पाते क्योंकि वे अत्यन्त व्यस्त है। उन्होंने उनके लिए अच्छे विद्यालय, महाविद्यालय, कई आधुनिक सुविधाओं जैसे मोबाइल, ट्यूशन, कोचिंग, गाड़ी आदि की सुविधाएं तो प्रदान की है। फिर भी बच्चे अपने माता-पिता से दूर होते जा रहे हैं। ऐसा क्यों हो रहा है ? सम्बन्धों में संवादहीनता क्यों हो रही है ?
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परन्तु सर्वाधिक महत्त्वपूर्ण क्या है – आपके बच्चे का भविष्य या आपकी नौकरी या व्यवसाय ? सबसे महत्त्वपूर्ण है बच्चों के भविष्य का निर्माण करना। यदि चरित्र विलुप्त हो जाता है तो सब कुछ खो जाता है। यदि आप समग्र विश्व को जीतकर अपना चरित्र खो देंगे तो आपको क्या लाभ होगा ? आइए हम अपने बच्चों को मूल्य सिखाएँ। हमारे घर-परिवार के सम्बन्ध और नींव को सशक्त बनाएँ। अपने बच्चे को मानसिक रूप से मजबूत बनाएँ। उन्हें कृतज्ञ रहना सिखाएँ। उन्हें माता-पिता के पैर छूना और उनका आशीर्वाद प्राप्त करना सिखाएँ। श्रेष्ठ सकारात्मक कार्य बालक में कृतज्ञता का भाव उत्पन्न करना ही होगा। इसी प्रवृत्ति से जीवन में स्वास्थ्य, सम्पत्ति, सम्बन्ध, आजीविका और सफलता की प्राप्ति होगी। इसके लिए मैं आपको तीन सुझाव देता हूँ –
कहिए – ‘‘धन्यवाद, धन्यवाद, धन्यवाद ‘‘। न केवल बोलिए बल्कि इसे अनुभव भी कीजिए और तीन बार कारण सहित, कार्य करने से पूर्व और कार्य समापन पर धन्यवाद कहिए। अपने माता-पिता, नियोक्ता, पेड़ों, प्रकृति और अपने भोजन के प्रति कृतज्ञ रहना सीखिए।
मनुष्य स्वयं के लिए और समाज के लिए जीता है । हमें अधिकाधिक उपयोगी बनना चाहिए। हम सभी ऊर्जापुंज ही तो हैं। अभिभावक जब तक स्वयं अपने आचरण में इन सब चीजों को नही लाएंगे तब तक ऐसा सिखाना महज औपचारिकता ही होगी। बच्चे बड़ों को देखकर ही अधिक सीखते हैं। वे पुस्तकों व निर्देशित बातों से नहीं सीख पाते बल्कि व्यावहारिकता से अधिक सीखते हैं।
हम भौतिक शरीर नहीं है। क्या हम सकारात्मक हैं? सकारात्मकता अच्छी ऊर्जा प्रदान करती है। नकारात्मकता कुण्ठा को जन्म देती है। इसलिए हम क्रोधित होते हैं, दूसरो को आहत करते हैं और उग्र हो जाते है। अपनी ऊर्जा को कैसे रूपान्तरित करें। नकारात्मक ऊर्जा से कैसे मुक्त हो ? इस हेतु हमें एक सामान्य शब्द ‘‘मुझे माफ कर दीजिए‘‘ (i am sorry) का प्रयोग करना होगा।
हम सभी गलतियाँ करते हैं परन्तु हम में से कितने लोग गलती स्वीकार कर कहते है कि ‘‘मुझे क्षमा कीजिए‘‘ हम अहंकारयुक्त जीवन जीते हैं। प्रत्येक दिन के प्रारंभ पर सुबह अपने बच्चों को माता-पिता के चरण स्पर्श करना सिखाएं तभी वे अपने अहंकार से मुक्त हो सकेंगे। वे अपनी गलती पर कह पाएंगे कि ‘‘मुझे क्षमा कीजिए‘‘। उन्हें नजरें मिलाकर कारण सहित और अच्छी भावना के साथ गलती स्वीकारना सिखाए।
हममें से अधिकांश लोग एक सामान्य गलती करते हैं कि हम अपनी माँ से झूठ बोलते है या अपने माता-पिता से सत्य छिपातंे है। यह हमारे द्वारा किया जाने वाला सबसे बड़ा अपराध है। आइए आज से हम यह संकल्प ले कि यह अपराध पुनः नहीं दोहराएंगे।
हम सही रूप से कार्य करें और ‘‘कर्म के नियम‘‘ को समझे। प्रत्येक कार्य के लिए समान एवं विपरीत प्रतिक्रिया होती है। जीवन मे कुछ प्राप्त करने के लिए आपको कुछ करना होगा, कुछ त्यागना होगा। हमें एकाग्रचित होना चाहिए। जानना चाहिए कि क्यांे बच्चे एकाग्रचित नहीं हो पाते। उन्हें अपना उद्देश्य निर्धारित करना सिखाना होगा। उनकी रूचि का ध्यान रखते हुए उन्हें अपने लक्ष्य तक पहुंचने में सहायता करे। जीवन एक लंबी यात्रा है – सम्पूर्ण मानव और मानव बनने के बीच। अपने बच्चों को प्रतिदिन इस दूरी को तय करने में सहायता कीजिए।

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